Now don't get me wrong, I'm not off my rocker or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a wife, children and a mortgage, being single is beginning to wear on me. I am tired of being single, single is my closest friend, I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I want to have a real relationship with someone other than my pet turtle, college dating stinks, for me anyway. Why does it appear like everyone else is successful in relationships but me, Losing in love has become a habit that is getting harder and harder to break.
I asked a close companion once (no not my pet monkey), but rather a college friend how they do it, I told her that when I go to parties, other women seem to have no problem connecting with guys, but no matter who I take a shine to, I am constantly outmaneuvered by other women who walk away with the trophy. Her answer was to ask me if I would let someone elbow me out of line at the bank. I replied I would grab them and shove them back in line to wait their turn. She said good, the next time some babe tries to take your man just push her aside, grab the guy and make him yours. Maybe I should have asked my chia pet.
I don't understand most college guys, I'm a smart attractive young woman but they act like I am the toe jamb in their shoes. The ones I do go out with are only interested in sexual stimulation, for a lot college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.
But its not just females that have problems, there are college guys who have problems with coeds. It seems if you won't have sex with them they think you are a pansy, its too bad because most people have more to offer than just sex. The boys tell me that a lot of the college girls would like them to get in the sack with them and if they want to wait a bit she tells her friends that they are narcissists and into self sexual satisfaction. Many of these men are nice guys that are just the type of guy that you would want to have a life with and don't just think of them as an easy lay, why can't these trollops see that these men will not accept this sort of handling.
There may be, however, a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, several of the guys and girls have decided to join several of the more successful online college dating sites. There have been some real success stories floating around about how guys and girls met their soul mates on these sites. People on these sites could care less what color your hair is and they are into more activities than just sex, sex, sex, they're really nice people, and college students like us. They have a dream of making something of themselves. They plan to meet and settle down with the person of their dreams. One of my friends actually met his fiance on a college dating site, I was surprised because it happened so quickly, that they were an item before I knew he was going to join an online dating site.
I have decided that I'm going to give it a try for myself. My friends have given me a 'college dating sites' link to try. This is where they started and they recommend it to everyone. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college and or looking to find someone to help make your college experience a little better why don't you follow this link:
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