Now don't get me wrong, I'm not weird or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a wife, kids and a condo, being single sucks and stinks to high heaven. I have been single for all my life, single is my closest confidant, I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I want to have a relationship with someone other than my cat, college dating is very frustrating for me. Why does it seem like everyone around me is winning at the game of love except me, Why can I not be successful at finding the love of my life?
I once asked someone close to me (no not my gold fish), but rather a college friend how she does it, I explained to her that when I go to get togethers, the other girls seem to have no problem approaching the guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Her answer was to question me if I would just let someone jump in front of me in line at the grocery store. I replied I would elbow them and embarrass them into standing at the back of the line like everyone else. She said wonderful, the next time some babe tries to rob you of your man play thing just kick her ass, grab the guy and make him yours. Maybe I should have asked my chia pet.
I guess I do not get some college guys, I'm a smart attractive college girl but they act like I am the toe jamb in their shoes. The ones I do go out with are only interested in sexual stimulation, for most college guys you have to put our or get the hell out, so I'd rather get out.
But its not just females that have problems, there are college dudes who do not seem to play well with college babes. It seems if you won't go to bed with them they want nothing to do with you, its too bad because most people have more to offer than just sex. The boys tell me that a lot of the college girls would like them do the horizonal mambo with them and if they shows any signs of reluctance she spreads rumors that they're gay. Most of these poor unfortunates are great guys that are just the type of guy that you would want to have a life with and don't just think of them as an easy piece, why can't these ladies see that these men will not accept this sort of handling.
However there might be a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, several of the group have decided to join several of the more successful online college dating sites. They have heard some amazing stories from other college students who met their dream date on one of the college dating sites. They said the people on these sites don't care what color your hair is and they are interesting to talk to and any sex is just part of the total package, they're really nice people, and college students like us. They have a dream of making something of themselves. They hope to meet the person of their dreams and settle down to a long future together. My best friend met his future wife on an online college dating site, I was surprised because it happened so quickly, that they were an item before I knew he was going to join an online dating site.
I have decided that I'm going to give it a try for myself. My friends have given me a 'college dating sites' link to try. This is where they started and they recommend it to everyone. Hopefully I will be as successful as they were and find the person that I will spend the rest of my life with. If you are in college or looking to date someone who is in college why don't you follow this link:
Dating College Women
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