Now don't get me wrong, I'm not weird or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a wife, kids and a condo with huge monthly fees, being single is beginning to wear on me. I have been single for all my life, single is my closest friend, I have had more than my fair share of relationship problems, I want to have a real relationship with someone other than my cat, college dating is very frustrating for me. Why does it appear like all my friends are in a committed relationship but me, I'm so sick and tired of loving and losing, maybe I should just except the fact that in the game of love, I'm a loser!
I once asked someone close to me (no not my dog), but rather a college friend how they do it, I confided in her that when I go to get togethers, the other girls seem to have no problem approaching the guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Her answer was to ask me what I would do if someone tried to line jump in front of me. I replied I would grab them and shove them back in line to wait their turn. She said excellent, the next time some babe tries to steal your man toy just push her aside, grab the guy and make him yours. Maybe I should have asked my dog.
I don't understand most college guys, I'm a smart attractive coed but they act like I am a wart on their butts sometimes. The ones I do go out with are only interested in the horizontal mambo, for many college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.
But its not just females that have problems, there are college guys who have problems with coeds. It seems if you won't go to bed with them they think you are gay, its too bad because I have a lot to offer, other then sex. The boys tell me that many of the coeds expect them do the horizonal mambo with them and if they shows any signs of reluctance she tells her friends that they are narcissists and into self sexual satisfaction. These are nice guys that respect women and don't just think of them as an easy piece, why can't these ladies see that these men will not accept this sort of handling.
However there might be a silver lining to this cloud, several of the group have decided to join several of the more successful online college dating sites. There have been some real success stories floating around about how guys and girls met their soul mates on these sites. They said the people on these sites don't care how much money you have and they are into more activities than just sex, sex, sex, they're fantastic people, and college students like us. They have a life plan that includes more than just getting through the current semester. They are interested in finding that certain person and one day settling down. One of my friends actually met his fiance on a college dating site, I had no idea at the time what he was up to or how they found each other.
My friends have been so successful that I have decided to try it for myself. My friends have given me a 'college dating sites' link to try. They said that this is where they started to look for college dating sites to join, and they have nothing but good things to say about the way the site recommends and rates the various college dating sites. Hopefully I will be as successful as they were and find the person that I will spend the rest of my life with. If you are in college and or looking to find someone to help make your college experience a little better why don't you follow this link:
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